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The Best and Worst Things About Making My Own Schedule

If you've never worked for yourself, I'm not sure it's possible to imagine what it's really like.

You probably overestimate some parts of it and underestimate others. It's not quite the same as when you're vacationing and your only prerogative is relax and see sights. You have responsibilities that need to get done, but no one's going to tell you when or how to do them.

Today I wanted to talk about my favorite and least favorite parts of this equation.

My favorite part, by far, is that I get to control the amount of craziness in my environment.

If I want people and noise and craziness, I can go shopping on a Saturday or out to a bar on a Friday night. If I want quiet time, I can go out when places are empty.

And on the seventh day...

I'm one for working all the time. I like to work, and enjoy it. When not working, I like to pursue hobbies and activities that also lead to accomplishments. Maybe some of the readers here will have a similar attitude towards spending their time.

Occasionally -- rarely -- I take a day off and just intentionally do nothing but relax. Every time I do, I'm reminded that my default way is not actually conducive to the things I want the most. Taking 2-3 days off at the beach every couple months doing simply nothing can lead to such a higher clarify of mind.Likewise, even just a day with no appointments nor self-imposed obligations can be incredibly refreshing.

If you're sleep-deprived, especially if you're averaging under 6 hours per night, the results of relaxation can be even greater. I slept 15 hours today, spent a little time with my family relaxing, eating slowly, and having a coffee, and then took a long walk through the night air listening to a biography of Napoleon on audiobook.

It was magnificent. Maybe those old scriptural tales about prohibitions from working once per week were on to something -- the societies that they originated them went on to thrive, excel, and endure, and perhaps that's not an accident? Maybe you'd benefit from breaking a day off from all obligations, especially if you haven't done so in a while.